Jody Padar, CPA, The Radical CPA joins Dawn Brolin, CPA, CFE, on The DM Disruption discussing her take on how Artificial Intelligence is the new disruptive technology force in the accounting profession, the Designated Motivator philosophy and how it can benefit accountants, especially now, given that the pandemic didn’t make our jobs any easier! When you ask an accountant why they are in this profession, it’s because they love helping their clients. The help businesses and individuals needed during the pandemic was significant. Accountants acted as Financial First Responders and needed to have big shoulders to handle every fear, concern and heartbreaking story that was thrown at them. The value provided to those they serve became evident — accountants exemplified what it meant to be advisors. But who is there to support the accountant? How many times has an accounting professional, regardless of firm size or title, thought: “I need someone to help me” … “I don't know what I should do as the world around me changes” … “Everybody's telling me I should change [something], but I don't know where to begin.” Issues like this wear us down. It's not like we have a ton of time to think about them. Afterall, we have clients to serve, work to get out the door and deadlines to meet. What is our motivation to continually evolve? More importantly, who can motivate us? Who can keep us moving one step at a time? Who can get us focused on the things we need to do to make our firms, or ourselves, better?
Dawn Brolin:
Hello, everyone and welcome to the DM Disruption. I'm the host Dawn Brolin. I'm a certified public accountant, certified fraud examiner, and the author of the designated motivator. We're here to help motivate you to take your practice to the next level. Have you considered outsourcing your clients payroll? Well, I did and I went with ADP. The resources they provide, along with their partner program become the premier outsourcing payroll solution. We as practitioners already deal with a ton of compliance. Keeping up with payroll isn't a value added solution that I should be focused on. you've considered outsourcing before reconsider it today. Choose ADP to be part of your starting lineup. Jody, tell us about yourself. Where are you from? What do you do? What do you like?
Jody Padar
Thanks, Dawn. So I'm Jody paid are the radical CPA, I'm one of probably the only few branded CPAs that's out there, right. I didn't know that. CPAs could have a brand, but I created one. But I'm a longtime practitioner who has recently joined kind of the other side, right. So I was one of the early cloud adopters, and really early social media enthusiasts and really kind of, I'll say, defined or pioneered what the new firm would look like in the cloud. And I did that for 14 years evolving my own firm and, you know, helping other people get to their firms. And to kind of like, I'll say, again, define what cloud firms look like. And last year, I joined bot keeper as Vice President of strategy to take it to the next level, because like, like, what's radical? Well, cloud isn't radical anymore. And next level radical is artificial intelligence and machine learning. So now, it's my job at bot keeper to help really firms make that transition and learn how machine learning and artificial intelligence is going to change their firms just like cloud did so many years ago. So it's couldn't be a more perfect job for me. So because I'm always out there teaching and, like sharing. So pretty stuff.
Unknown Speaker 2:04
So we know definitely, and you're right. I mean, the artificial intelligence conversation wasn't even a thing 10 years ago, I mean, it was for you to smart people, you forward thinkers, of course, right. But you know, and that's probably one of the interesting things is trying to get this industry we're like, it's like push our rope sometimes with them. And, and the whole goal is, we're not telling them that because we want them to invest in more time and money into something else, we want them to be ahead of the curve. And that's what you're doing, you're doing that and do it very well,
Unknown Speaker 2:31
for sure. And I think it's not even about like, everyone thinks that, oh, we're adopting tech for tech sake, or whatever, because we're supposed to, but ultimately, it's about building a lifestyle and having the ability to kind of put time back in your firm and actually get to go home early, or do whatever you want to do grow it to whatever else because I think so we we get so caught in that, oh, we have to work all these hours. But if we step back, and we automate a lot of stuff, a lot of times we don't have to work all the hours, and we can actually go home on time, which I think is kind of nice.
Unknown Speaker 3:03
Getting your life back is key. And I think that that's you know, if we're talking about motivation to learn this stuff, whether it's technology, or the AI, the whole entire AI conversation, it's because we want you to be motivated, not because you're gonna make more money, like people aren't really out there saying, I want to make more money, what they want to do is I want to grab their life back. Yeah, if that's what's exciting. So with this podcast, my whole goal is to get great motivation messages out to people and it especially in the accounting industry, we really, we need it, we need to remember why we're doing this, and who we're doing it for and things like that, but really changing lives one person at a time, right, which is different than motivational speaking, where you're talking to a big 1000s of people, we're just trying to get to one person at a time, because that will multiply itself all in of itself. So give us you know, tell us about some motivational moments that you've had, that you know that you've gone out and help someone else
Unknown Speaker 4:00
well, so I'm going to take it back to like my early days in social media, because a lot of people think that social media, like I just came up with 600,000 followers, because I didn't write like you don't get 600,000 followers overnight. And in my early days in Twitter, that's what I was doing. I mean, I truly was we were connecting with other professionals, but we were motivating each other and we were pushing each other to change and grow and adopt. And I think that's where like, I kind of got my my space that I really love. And it's because like I have the heart of a teacher, right? And so when I can motivate and teach that I'm happy, and what happens is is you don't realize that it has such a snowball and a multiplying effect, because like you teach someone else and then they teach someone else and then they teach someone else. And I think when you think about even an industry or you know a profession, when you start connecting to those motivators, then all of a sudden it starts to snowball. So like instead of just being snowflakes now, all of a sudden You're really a force to be reckoned with. And that's like how social really kind of evolved me and really helped me help move a profession. But I think, again, motivate the profession, right? Because it's not about selling, it's never been about selling, it's about how do I change my firm so I can have time back, right? And what can I do so that I like my job better. And I think if you, if you started from that perspective, then it's really easy to motivate and help people realize, yeah, we can get through it, if we're having a struggle on it. Because we know that there's something better at the end of it. And if you see someone who's gone before, and you're helping them, or like, they're helping you, you know, it just keeps going in. And it's funny, because, like you do it, you do it, you do it. And then all of a sudden, you start getting pings back saying, Oh my gosh, thank you, blah, blah, blah. And then it's people you don't even know who are like telling you that you change their lives. And you're like, I, you know, I don't believe it, right? Like cuz you cuz you didn't actually touch them, but because you touch someone who touched them. Now, all of a sudden, like you're making a difference. And, to me, that's kind of what keeps me going. Because everyone's like, well, especially in the early days, I didn't get paid for any of the social media stuff that I did. It was always just, it was a labor of love. And, and, and that's what it becomes. Because like when you start affecting people's lives, then they want to give it back. And then they tell you, and then you know, you've kind of feed your ego, and you're like, Oh my god, I got to help more people, because you're like, like, you have the heart of a teacher. And so then it just becomes a thing.
Unknown Speaker 6:35
Right? Absolutely. And you know, and that's, that's one of the things that I find, you know, especially like, you teach a lot of conferences, you do a lot of webinars, you do these things, and you get in front of a lot of people at one time, and you don't realize the effect, I know that, you know, and I'm sure this happened to you too. But I've been at a conference and I've done a some kind of a course or a class. And you know, we put our heart, soul body, mind, you name it, we put it into what we're presenting and providing for education, right? And people will come up to you after the session is over. And they're crying. Like, why are you crying? Like because I needed to hear what you were saying to me. And it's like, I didn't even realize I'm just teaching some stuff about fraud. I mean, I don't know, you know.
Unknown Speaker 7:17
And I think too, because you put yourself out there, right? So you're opening yourself up, and you're sharing. And I think we do it on stage. And we do it in social. But I think when you take it back to if you're just sitting in your firm, and you do it to the kid sitting next to you or the like the younger professional sitting next to you, and you help them understand something, it's the exact same thing, but you're just doing it at a different level. So, you know, these, these principles can apply to everyone. It's not like you have to be a speaker or social media person or whatever, you could just be helping the person in the cube next to you. So are like, on the zoom across from you, right, and helping them understand what what's happening, because I think too often we get caught in all we got to get it done. And we don't spend the time to really teach anymore, which is it's a loss for both sides, because I think it hurts the people who don't get to receive the teaching. But you know, if you can teach something, it means you really know it too. So it hurts the person who hasn't had the opportunity to teach because when you learn how to teach, you learn your stuff so much better. You it's so totally true. And I love what you said about like the person next to you. So I see you always talking about the firm of the future. And we talk about the firm of the future and technology and AI and all this, which is important. Don't get me wrong. But to have a firm that has someone inside of that firm, even if it's two people, three people, one person that doesn't matter. Someone that can be that teacher, in every aspect, say less, I may not be the expert that that God is in AI. But I can certainly ask her how our weekend was and check in on her and say, Hey, how are you doing?
Unknown Speaker 8:55
Right? And like really having that two, three minute conversation. They people are so thankful for that kind of attention. And that's where our technology has drawn us a little bit away from that. And I think that the people are suffering, right? They're suffering. So how can we cause a disruption, which is why we call this podcast, the damn disruption, because it's about doing something totally different that may be out of your comfort zone. Or you never even really realize or recognize that motivation comes from person to person. Right. Right. So tell me tell me what you go ahead.
Unknown Speaker 9:32
No. So I think it starts with trust. And I think that's hard. Right. So I think, ultimately, you know, I think sometimes not everyone is programmed to go into the world trusting everybody else. And I think I'm kind of sometimes I'm at a fault because of it because I'm going to trust you unless you do something to show me that I shouldn't trust you. Whereas I think there are a lot more people who are more skeptical, right? Who who aren't so trusting, right? And so if you can Go into these relationships, work relationships, social relationships, trusting people before they kind of burn you, right? And they're not going to burn you. But you, because I think we sometimes have this feeling that, you know, if you meet 100, people 99 are going to burn you. And one is really going to be trusting. But I think in reality, 99 of them are going to be awesome to you, they're going to respect you, it's going to work, and only one of them is got a little bit of a sneakiness to them, right. And so I think if you can switch that mindset, and go into kind of your work relationships, these other relationships with a little bit more trust, that I think we've kind of guarded ourselves, maybe from the past or whatever, then you can be that designated motivator, and you can also receive it a lot more. So I think it's sometimes even goes deeper. Because, like, we don't, we don't have the trust. And so we don't share. And so how do you how do you kind of build that trust? And again, I think it starts with going into that conversation, assuming they have trust, and assuming both sides are trustworthy. And then you can kind of you can have those conversations, because if you don't, then you're never going to get beyond that, or to that motivation, because, like everyone's got their guard up. Right, you
Unknown Speaker 11:19
won't have that opportunity because they're not letting it in. Right, right. That's a good point. That's a really good point. So on a trust factor thing real quick. I just got to tell you this weekend, I have a little Mazda Miata. It's my little fun car, you know, it gets like 7000 miles to the gallon and prices these days, like mice will use it. So I was driving down Main Street, and there was a man walking on the sidewalk, and I kind of pulled up as a result light. And he's like, Hey, nice car. And I just looked over at him. older gentleman. I could tell he wasn't he was I would say displaced. Should we say that way? Right? And I was like, Oh, thank you. I love Yeah, I do. I love this car. And he goes, are you going to Walmart, and I go, I'm not but I can for you get in. And so I gave the guy a ride to Walmart and I think back and he and I had a little conversation about you know, you're obviously you ask for rides and you're very, you're very trustworthy. Like how, like, how did how did you Why do you feel that way? And, you know, he's like, Oh, I hitchhiked across country back in the 60s and blah, blah, blah. I mean, this guy's name was john loved him. And so um, but you know, the, his trust in me to invite him into the car, and my trust in Him to invite him into my car as a woman. Right? So I was just like, you know what, I don't I don't care. Like I trust this. I don't. People might you know, people. Oh, my God, I can't believe you do that. Are you kidding me? Somebody gave birth to that guy. Like, that's what I always think in my mind. Somebody gave birth to that guy. And I just had this trust. trustful feeling. Come on, let's go for a ride. So it's kind of a similar thing to that. Right. Right. And,
Unknown Speaker 12:53
and I think too, if, again, if you can go into work relationships, if we're talking about work, right? If you could go into work relationships, assuming trust, until they prove you differently, then you're going to be okay to give and receive these kind of dm things. If you go in with your guard up, you're never going to get there because you're not going to be able to receive it and you're not going to be able to give it and it's funny because like, again, I think that's starts with a mindset, right that I trust them until I until they've proven to me that I can't trust them. Right. And I think a lot of times, not everyone goes into into work relationships like that, right? That's like kind of a mindset. So I would start there. And for me, that's, that's that I'll say, that's one of my superpowers, right is like I trust them sometimes to fault, right. But that's where the authentic relationships begin. And that's where you can actually kind of get closer to them, right, a little bit more intimate with them in a professional sense. And kind of, you know, motivate them or really understand their point of view and where they're coming from and give them that motivation that actually applies to them, as opposed to the generic Great job, or that was amazing. Because, to me, if you just say that's amazing to everything, that's worse than saying nothing. Because maybe that's Um, and I don't want to go into Millennials are not millennials, but to me when I hear that's amazing with everything. It's like so it's like that participation award. It's like I've already like,
Unknown Speaker 14:23
I just counted. Oh, yeah, participation certificates. No, no, no, no, no. Right. Right. You've got to be all in man.
Unknown Speaker 14:32
Yeah. And so you have to be specific and you have to be and you have to be, it has to be really related to who they are and what they do as a person. And if you can do that, then I think, you know, that's, that's leadership, right? That's truly leadership, to have the ability to do that and influence them and to, to to have them understand how good they are and what they can bring to the table. Absolutely,
Unknown Speaker 14:59
yeah. So tell us, tell us a story of you. Because you've done so much. I mean, you can't even, you know, you've taught you teach you, you know, all kinds of levels and things like that. Give us an example of a time where you felt like you really connected with somebody, and were able to give them that motivation to, you know, do something they never thought they could do, or whatever.
Unknown Speaker 15:18
I think it comes back to a couple of stories. And again, it's where people reached out to me that I didn't know that I had an impact on them, right? And then they reached out to me after, right, so like, we've had this, I'll say, this ongoing, remote relationship, where I didn't think it was not to say it wasn't that big of a relationship, but it was like, I don't know, it was just a regular kind of relationship. I didn't think that I was having the impact, right. Like, I didn't think that I was having the impact. And then I got like, an E, I think it was through LinkedIn, a DM or whatever, telling me that they were quitting their firm, and they were starting a new firm. And it was all because of me, and that they had made the decision to go out on their own. Because the things that I had been talking about resonated with them. And now they were ready to make the leap instead of the jump. And that's, to me, that's cool, right? Because, again, it's one thing to talk about it. But it's another thing to have that person internalize it so much to know that now they can be successful, and start their own firm, and take the take the leap, right. And I like nobody was there for me when I did it. So it was kind of cool to be there and be like, Oh, I can help you. However, I can, blah, blah, blah. But I think that's, you know, that's the neat stuff when when you actually it goes beyond just the compliment, or it goes beyond just the receiving of it that now they're actually changing their life because of something you said or did, right? It's what's cool. And I would say the same thing has happened to me, where, you know, early on in my career, there were some supporters of kind of what I was doing on social and everything. And they had a lot of clout in the accounting industry. And they stood up for me, and they gave me a stage. And they said, Jodi, you go up here and you you talk right? And we'll make space for you. Right? And when they did that, it gave me an opportunity, right? And so to them, they were my motivation, because I would have been like, Oh, no, I don't like I can't do that my ideas aren't that great. They're like, right, but they were the ones who said, No, your ideas are going to make a difference. And we're going to make space for you on the stage to talk about him, right. And so for me, that was where I was motivated by and these were some pretty influential CPAs. They're still out there. But I would have never like, never thought my ideas were good enough. Other than like to be on the stage, right? Like, Oh, fine, I can talk about them on social, but I'm not going to be at a big conference and talk about them. And they were the ones who said, Yeah, no, the profession really needs to hear them. We're going to we're going to make a place for you on the stage. And that was like the motivation that I received. Because it was like, wow, like they actually they believed in me, right. And that was, that was the turning point. Because sometimes you need someone else to believe in you before you believe in yourself. And you can talk all you want, but it's your own self that holds you back. Because until someone else tells you, that's a really good idea and I support you, you you kind of shy away, right? Or you don't you don't make those bold moves, right. And then when they say that all of a sudden, it's like they're holding your hand, even though they're not on stage, but they're holding your hand on stage. So you know that you're not going to fall, right? Because they're behind you. And that's what it does from the other side. Like I'll say that's, that's who's motivated me, and given me that opportunity that, you know, because everyone thinks, I don't want to say they think that you just you're born like this, but you're not born like this. You have the same fears, the same, the same insecurities that everyone else does. And you need that motivator to stand behind you just as much as you're standing behind or helping you know, a professional as well, because that's how you grow in your career. And if you don't, like you're gonna stay stagnant,
Unknown Speaker 19:08
right? Yeah. Well, it's as simple as like it always is. If you're not moving forward, you are moving backwards. You're not standing still. There is no such thing as standing still, right? Yeah, no, and I really appreciate that because I know for me, I watched people like you I watched Jeannie White House I was I mean, I could name off 7 million people. Well, listen, we're staying within our typically 1520 minutes we try to keep it short so people actually watch it and listen to us because it's fun stuff. But I can't thank you enough God for coming on as always have fun talking to you. We've been on some recent webinars together which has been super fun. And so yeah, so our next episode we're gonna have James Upton who has his firm and has been struggling.
We're just gonna talk about some struggles through the COVID process and how the industry is just, you know, been affected by it, and see if we can go out there and solve problems for people that are out there struggling. But, Jody, thank you again so much for coming and spending time with me. And so we'll see everybody out there on social and everybody keep your heads up. We're gonna motivate you as much as weekend. Yep, keep motivated. Thank you. Go motivate. I hope you enjoy this podcast. Feel free to visit danbrolin.com to motivate you to improve your practice. wishing you all the best. Have a great day.
Dawn Brolin 0:01
Hello everyone and welcome to the DM Disruption. I'm the host Dawn Brolin. I'm a certified public accountant, Certified Fraud Examiner, and the author of The Designated Motivator. We're here to help motivate you to take your practice to the next level.
Have you considered outsourcing your clients payroll? Well, I did not work with ADP. The resources they provide, along with their partner program became the premier outsourcing Payroll solution. We as practitioners already deal with a ton of compliance. Keeping up with payroll isn't a value added solution that I should be focused on. You consider outsourcing before reconsider today, choose ADP to be part of your starting lineup.
Jody, tell us about yourself. Where are you from? What do you do? What do you like?
Jody Padar 0:53
Hey, Dawn. So I'm Jody Padar the radical CPA, I'm one of probably only few branded CPAs. that's out there. Right? I didn't know that he pays could have a brand, but I created one. But I'm a longtime practitioner who has recently joined kind of the other side, right? So I was one of the early cloud adopters, and really early social media enthusiast and really kind of, I'll say defined or pioneered what the new firm would look like in the cloud. And I did that for 14 years evolving my own firm and, you know, helping other people get to their firms. And to kind of like, I'll say, again, define what Cloud firms look like. And last year, I joined bot keeper as Vice President of Strategy to take it to the next level. Because like, like, What's radical? Well, cloud isn't radical anymore. And the next level radical is artificial intelligence and machine learning. So now, it's my job at bot keeper to help really firms make that transition and learn how machine learning and artificial intelligence is going to change their firms just like Cloud did so many years ago, so it's couldn't be a more perfect job for me. So because I'm always out there teaching and, like sharing. So pretty stuff.
Dawn Brolin 2:04
Absoultley, definitely! And you're right. I mean, the artificial intelligence conversation wasn't even a thing 10 years ago, I mean, it's suitable for you smart people, you for thinkers, of course, right. But you know, and that's probably one of the interesting things is trying to get this industry we're like, it's like push our rope sometimes with them. And, and the whole goal is, we're not telling them that because we want them to invest in more time and money into something else. We want them to be ahead of the curve. And that's what you're doing. You're doing that and do it very well.
Jody Padar 2:31
For sure! And I think it's not even about like, everyone thinks that, oh, we're adopting tech for tech sake, or whatever, because we're supposed to, but ultimately, it's about building a lifestyle and having the ability to kind of put time back in your firm and actually get to go home early, or do whatever you want to do grow it, do whatever else because I think so we we get so caught in that, oh, we have to work all these hours. But if we step back, and we automate a lot of stuff, a lot of times we don't have to work all the hours and we can actually go home on time, which I think is kind of nice.
Dawn Brolin 3:02
Yeah, getting your life back is key. And I think that that's, you know, if we're talking about motivation to learn this stuff, whether it's technology or the AI, the whole entire AI conversation, it's because we want you to be motivated, not because you're gonna make more money, like people are really out there saying, I want to make more money, what they want to do is they want to grab their life back. 1% Yeah, if that's what's exciting. So with this podcast, my whole goal is to get great motivation messages out to people, and especially in the accounting industry, we really, we need it, we need to remember why we're doing this, and who we're doing it for things like that, but really changing lives one person at a time, right? Which is different than motivational speaking, where you're talking to a big 1000s of people, we're just trying to get to one person at a time, because that will multiply itself all in of itself. So give us you know, tell us about some motivational moments that you've had, that you know that you've gone out and help someone else.
Jody Padar 4:00
Well, so I'm gonna take it back to like, my early days and social media, because a lot of people think that social media, like I just came up with 600,000 followers, because I didn't, right? Like you don't get 600,000 followers overnight. And in my early days, in Twitter, that's what I was doing. I mean, I truly was we were connecting with other professionals, but we were motivating each other and we were pushing each other to change and grow and adopt. And I think that's where, like, I kind of got my, my space that I really love. And it's because like I have the heart of a teacher, right? And so when I can motivate and teach that I'm happy, and what happens is is you don't realize that it has such a snowball and a multiplying effect because like you teach someone else and then they teach someone else and then they teach someone else. And I think when you think about even an industry or you know a profession, when you start connecting to those motivators then all of a sudden it starts to snowball. So like instead of just being snowflakes now all of us On, you're really a force to be reckoned with. And that's like how social really kind of evolved me and really helped me help move a profession. But I think, again, motivate the profession, right? Because it's not about selling, it's never been about selling, it's about how do I change my firm so I can have time back, right? And what can I do so that I like my job better. And I think if you, if you started from that perspective, then it's really easy to motivate and help people realize, yeah, we can get through it, if we're having a struggle on it. Because we know that there's something better at the end of it. And if you see someone who's gone before, and you're helping them, or like they're helping you, you know, it just keeps going. And it's funny, because, like you do it, you do it, you do it. And then all of a sudden, you start getting pings back saying, oh my gosh, thank you, blah, blah, blah. And then it's people you don't even know who are like telling you that you changed their lives. And you're like, I, you know, I don't believe it, right? Like, because you because you didn't actually touch them, but because you touch someone who touched them. Now, all of a sudden, like you're making a difference. And to me, that's kind of what keeps me going, right? Because everyone's like, well, especially in the early days, I didn't get paid for any of the social media stuff that I did. It was always just, it was a labor of love. And, and, and that's what it becomes. Because like when you start affecting people's lives, then they want to give it back. And then they tell you, and then you know, you kind of feed your ego and you're like, oh my god, I gotta help more people, because you're like, like, you have the heart of a teacher. And so then it just becomes a thing.
Dawn Brolin 6:35
Right? Absolutely. And you know, and that's, that's one of the things that I find, you know, especially like, you teach a lot of conferences, you do a lot of webinars, you do these things, and you get in front of a lot of people at one time. And you don't realize the effect, I know that, you know, I'm sure this happened to you too. But I've been at a conference, and I've done to some kind of a course or class. And you know, we put our heart, soul body, mind, you name it, we put it into what we're presenting and providing for education, right? And people will come up to you after the session is over. And they're crying. Like, why are you crying? For like, because I need to hear what you were saying to me. And it's like, I didn't even realize I'm just teaching some stuff about fraud. I mean, I don't know, you know.
Jody Padar 7:17
And I think too, because you put yourself out there, right? So you're opening yourself up, and you're sharing. And I think we do it on stage. And we do it in social. But I think when you take it back to if you're just sitting in your firm, and you do it to the kid sitting next to you or the like the younger professionals sitting next to you, and you help them understand something, it's the exact same thing, but you're just doing it at a different level. So, you know, these, these principles can apply to everyone. It's not like you have to be a speaker or social media person or whatever, you could just be helping the person in the cube next to you. So are like, on the zoom across from you, right? And helping them really understand what what's happening, because I think too often we get caught in Oh, we got to get it done. And we don't spend the time to really teach anymore, which is it's a loss for both sides, because I think it hurts the people who don't get to receive the teaching. But you know, if you can teach something, it means you really know it too. So it hurts the person who hasn't had the opportunity to teach because when you learn how to teach, you learn your stuff so much better.
Dawn Brolin 8:23
That's so totally true. And I love what you said about like the person next to you. So I see, you always talk about the firm of the future. And we talk about the firm of the future and technology and AI and all this, which is important. Don't get me wrong. But to have a firm that has someone inside of that firm, even if it's two people, three people, one person, it doesn't matter. Someone that can be that teacher, in every aspect, say, Liz, I may not be the expert that that Jodi is in AI. But I can certainly ask her how her weekend was and check in on her and say, Hey, how are you doing? Right? And like really having that two, three minute conversation. They people are so thankful for that kind of attention. And that's where our technology has drawn us a little bit away from that. And I think that they're the people are suffering, right? They're suffering. So how can we cause a disruption, which is why we call this podcast with the disruption because it's about doing something totally different that may be out of your comfort zone, or you never even really realize or recognize that motivation comes from person to person. So tell me tell me what, you go ahead, finish what you were going to say.
Jody Padar 9:32
Well, no. So I think it starts with trust. And I think that's hard. Right. So I think, ultimately, you know, I think sometimes not everyone is programmed to go into the world trusting everybody else. And I think I'm kind of sometimes I'm at a fault because of it because I'm going to trust you unless you do something to show me that I shouldn't trust you. Whereas I think there are a lot more people who are more skeptical, who who aren't so trusting, right? And so if you can go into these relationships, work relationships, social relationships, trusting people before they kind of burn you, right? And they're not going to burn you. But you, because I think we sometimes have this feeling that, you know, if you meet 100, people 99 are going to burn you, no one is really going to be trusting. But I think in reality, 99 of them are going to be awesome to you, they're going to respect you, it's going to work, and only one of them is got a little bit of a sneakiness to him, right. And so I think if you can switch that mindset, and go into kind of your work relationships, these other relationships with a little bit more trust, that I think we've kind of guarded ourselves, maybe from the past or whatever, then you can be that designated motivator, and you can also receive it a lot more. So I think it sometimes even goes deeper. Because, like, we don't, we don't have the trust. And so we don't share. And so how do you how do you kind of build that trust? And again, I think it starts with going into that conversation, assuming they have trust, and assuming both sides are trustworthy. And then you can kind of you can have those conversations, because if you don't, then you're never going to get beyond that, or to that motivation, because, like everyone's got their guard up.
Dawn Brolin 11:18
Right, you won't have the opportunity because they're not letting it in. Right, right. That's a good point. That's a really good point. So on a trust factor thing real quick. I've just got to tell you this weekend, I have a little Mazda Miata. It's my little fun car, you know, it gets like 7000 miles to the gallon. And the prices these days, like mice will use it. So I was driving down Main Street, and there was a man walking on the sidewalk, and I kind of pulled up because there was a light and he's like, Hey, nice car. And I just looked over at him. older gentleman. I could tell he wasn't he was I would say displaced. Should we say that way? Might? And I was like, Oh, thank you. I love Yeah, I do. I love this car. And he goes, Are you going to Walmart. And I go, I'm not but I can for you get it? And so I gave the guy a ride to Walmart and I think back and he and I had a little conversation about you. You're obviously you ask for rides and you're very, you're very trustworthy. Like how, like, how did how did you Why do you feel that way? And, you know, he's like, Oh, I hitchhiked across country back in the 60s and blah, blah, blah. I mean, this guy's name was John loved him. And so um, but you know, the, his trust in me to invite him into the car, and my trust in Him to invite him into my car as a woman. Right? So I was just like, You know what, I don't I don't care. Like I trust this. I don't want you know, if you Oh, my God, I can't believe you do that. Are you kidding me? Somebody gave birth to that guy. Like, that's what I always think in my mind. Somebody gave birth to that guy. And I just had this trust. trustful feeling. Come on, let's go for a ride. So it's kind of a similar thing to that. Right.
Jody Padar 12:52
Right. And, and I think too, if, again, if you can go into work relationships, if we're talking about work, right? If you could go into work relationships, assuming trust, until they prove you differently, then you're going to be okay to give and receive these kind of DM things. If you go in with your guard up, if you're never going to get there, because you're not going to be able to receive it and you're not going to be able to give it and it's funny because like, again, I think that's starts with a mindset, right that I trust them until I until they proven to me that I can't trust them. Right. And I think a lot of times, not everyone goes into into work relationships like that, right? That's like kind of a mindset. So I would start there. And for me, that's, that's that I'll say, that's one of my superpowers, right is like I trust them sometimes to a fault, right. But that's where the authentic relationships begin. And that's where you can actually kind of get closer to them, right, a little bit more intimate with them in a professional sense. And kind of, you know, motivate them or really understand their point of view and where they're coming from and give them that motivation that actually applies to them, as opposed to the generic, great job, or that was amazing. Because, to me, if you just say that's amazing to everything, that's worse than saying nothing. Because maybe that's um, and I don't want to go into Millennials are not millennials, but to me when I hear that's amazing with everything. It's like so it's like that participation award. It's like I've already like, I just counted it.
Dawn Brolin 14:26
Oh, yeah. Participation certificates. No, no, no, no, no. Right. Right. You've got to be all in man.
Jody Padar 14:33
And so you have to be specific and you have to be and you have to be, it has to be really related to who they are and what they do as a person. And if you can do that, then I think, you know, that's, that's leadership, right? That's truly leadership, to have the ability to do that and influence them and to, to to have them understand how good they are and what they can bring to the table.
Dawn Brolin 14:58
Absolutely, yeah. So tell us, tell us a story of you. Because you've done so much. I mean, again, even, you know, you've taught you teach you, you know, all kinds of levels and things like that. Give us an example of a time where you felt like you really connect with somebody, and were able to give them that motivation to, you know, do something they never thought they could do, or whatever.
Jody Padar 15:18
I think it comes back to a couple of stories. And again, it's where people reached out to me that I didn't know that I had an impact on them, right? And then they reached out to me after, right, so like we'd had this, I'll say, this ongoing, remote relationship, where I didn't think it was not to say it wasn't that big of a relationship, but it was like, I don't know, it was just a regular kind of relationship. I didn't think that I was having the impact, right. Like, I didn't think that I was having the impact. And then I got like, an E, I think it was through LinkedIn, and a DM or whatever, telling me that they were quitting their firm, and they were starting a new firm. And it was all because of me, and that they had made the decision to go out on their own. Because the things that I had been talking about resonated with them. And now they were ready to make the leap instead of the jump. And, to me, that's cool, right? Because, again, it's one thing to talk about it. But it's another thing to have that person internalize it so much to know that now they can be successful, and start their own firm, and take the take the leap, right. And I like nobody was there for me when I did it. So it was kind of cool to be there and be like, Oh, I can help you. However, I can, blah, blah, blah. But I think that's, you know, that's the neat stuff when when you actually it goes beyond just the compliment, or it goes beyond just the receiving of it, that now they're actually changing their life because of something you said or did. Right. And that's what's cool. And I would say the same thing has happened to me, where, you know, early on in my career, there were some supporters of kind of what I was doing on social and everything. And they had a lot of clout in the accounting industry. And they stood up for me, and they gave me a stage. And they said, Jodi, you go up here and you you talk right? And we'll make space for you. Right? And when they did that, it gave me an opportunity, right? And so to them, they were my motivation, because I would have been like, oh, no, I don't like I can't do that my ideas aren't that great. They're like, right, but they were the ones who said, No, your ideas are going to make a difference. And we're going to make space for you on the stage to talk about it. Right. And so for me, that was where I was motivated by and these were some pretty influential CPAs. They're still out there. But I would have never like, never thought my ideas were good enough. Other than like to be on the stage, right? Like, Oh, fine, I can talk about them on social, but I'm not going to be at a big conference and talk about them. And they were the ones who said, yeah, no, the profession really needs to hear them, we're going to, we're going to make a place for you on the stage. And that was like the motivation that I received. Because it was like, wow, like they actually they believed in me, right. And that was, that was the turning point. Because sometimes you need someone else to believe in you before you believe in yourself. And you can talk all you want, but it's your own self that holds you back. Because until someone else tells you, that's a really good idea, and I support you, you you kind of shy away, right? Or you don't you don't make those bold moves, right. And then when they say that all of a sudden, it's like they're holding your hand, even though they're not on stage, but they're holding your hand on stage. So you know that you're not going to fall, right? Because they're behind you. And that's what it does from the other side. Like I'll say that's, that's who's motivated me, and given me that opportunity that, you know, because everyone thinks, I don't want to say they think that you just you're born like this, but you're not born like this, you have the same fears, the same, the same insecurities that everyone else does, and you need that motivator to stand behind you just as much as you're standing behind or helping you know, a professional as well. Because that's how you grow in your career. And if you don't, like you're gonna stay stagnant.
Dawn Brolin 19:08
Right. Well, it's a simple like, it always is. If you're not moving forward, you are moving backwards, you're not standing still, there is no such thing as standing still. Right? Um, yeah no, and I really appreciate that because I know for me, I watched people like you I watched Jeannie White House I was I mean I could name all 7 million people. Well listen, we're saying within our typically 1520 minutes we try to keep it short so people actually watch it and listen to us the fun stuff, but I can't thank you enough God for coming on as always have fun talking to you. We've been on some recent webinars together which has been super fun. And so yeah, so our next episode we're gonna have James Upton James Upton is the President CEO of Upton accounting great guy. We're just gonna talk about some struggles through the COVID process and how the industry is just you know, bent affected by it, and see if we can go out there and solve problems with people that are out there struggling. But, Jody, thank you so much for coming and spending time with me. And so we'll see everybody out there on social and everybody keep your heads up. We're going to motivate you as much as we can.
Jody Padar 20:11
Yep, keep motivated, thank you!
Dawn Brolin 20:13
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